Kinetico
Fortunately, I did find a full-time job as a technical writer after a few months of part-time jobs. I was hired by Kinetico in Newbury, Ohio, to write proposals and manuals for their Reverse Osmosis and other filtered water systems, which they manufactured on the site. It was a 45-minute drive to and from work daily. That job lasted until ‘98. When they laid me off, they also laid off about a third of their staff and manufacturing workers.
A Shaky Paradise
During my stint at Kinetico, Anne’s and my relationship continued to deteriorate. All efforts to reconcile our differences were for naught. Nothing I did mulified her in any way.
She had asked me to go to couples counseling with her therapist. I didn’t even know she had a therapist! Apparently, my medical coverage through Kinetico, which covered our whole family, supplied a therapist upon request, and she had requested one and had many visits that I only found out about when she decided that we needed couples counseling. Of course, I was surprised and reluctant at first; didn’t think our problems needed airing to ‘professionals’.
You may remember me talking about my less than satisfying experience with a ‘therapist’ after Lynn left. But I relented and agreed to it. After a few weeks, I asked her when the counseling would begin. She told me that her therapist told her it would be a waste of time since Anne had no intention of reconciling in any way. And that was that.
To be Continued
–LE


6 responses to “Anne – Part 17 – Kinetico – Shaky Paradise”
I guess therapy only works when both parties are open to change.
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That’s true… Karma, I guess…; -)
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Husband 2 wasn’t open to couples therapy though I thought we could have benefited from it. He thought we didn’t need it. Go figure…
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I’m sure you were right about it possibly helping. My initial hesitation was probably similar to his, except that I had already had a less than productive experience with ‘counseling’ after Lynn left. And I did agree to it in fairley short order.
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We fought way too much and he blamed it all on me, never taking responsibility for his part. If we had gone to counseling, maybe a neutral third party could have set us straight. I’ve heard there’s “his story”, “her story”, and “the truth”. I believe it.
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That’s certainly a good compromising way to approach it. Then there’s the idea that all ‘truths’ are based on our individual perceptions, which, as I’ve tried to point out in a couple of my poems, is based on the human knack of ‘misperception’. But for expediency, your approach probably works best…; -)
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